2025 Adventures

Beetlejuice

January 1, 2025

Off to Spokane to watch the musical comedy BEETLEJUICE, Tim Burton’s story tells about a teenager whose life changes when she meets ghosts and a demon in stripes. I think we all eventually have to confront life’s demons “Facing demons in life” means confronting and dealing with  negative emotions.

Disney World

January 4-18, 2025

I enjoy being by myself in wonderful Disney free from all the stress of reality? Have we prepared for four years of Trump? Love seeing our Disney friends and dreaming about “What Next?” Maybe ABD Egypt? Is D33 in our Future? Doubtful, but it is a nice Disney Dream.

Disney Treasure

January 18-25, 2025

My highlight on board were the Disney Treasure’s  live shows… Disney Seas, Beauty and the Beast, and Moana. Concierge is incredible. I was asked what I wanted to experience on the cruise… I said the Haunted Mansion parlor and the Periscope Pub. It didn’t happen. Enough said! 

Remodel 2025

January 28, 2025

Our early discussion centered around escalating costs. We heard that whatever quote you get from our contractor, you should double it. WHAT? Monsieur François Léon Oui was hired! Stay tuned this could be the most interesting page turned in our marriage.

Valentine's Day

February 14, 2025

I guess after being married for 25 years a certain familiarity occurs. Instead of grand surprises or repetitious cards and chocolates the simple joy of companionship takes hold of both our lives. Growing older with your best friend is a true blessing.

One Month

March 1, 2025

The greatest gift Monsieur Oui can give his sweetheart is my time, my complete attention (sometimes), my love (always) and a completed remodel. Question is… will my body or will my spirit hold out the longest?

Two Months

March 31, 2025

And happiness…Well, after all, desires torment us,  I see now happiness is when there are no more desires. This remodel is like a novel of desires… up until the very last page page Monsieur François Léon Oui does not know how it will end? Maybe never? Next the Master closet.

Mamma Mia

June 18, 2025

Nice break from our remodel. Fun… Fun night watching an old favorite. The cast member playing Tonya blew the house down with her voice and body. AND of course one fan sang along as did most of the crowd.

Remodel 95%

July 4, 2025

Our Fourth of July was proudly celebrated at home, basking in the glory of our brand-new kitchen—featuring rich black walnut cupboards, polished quartz countertops, refinished baseboards that no one will ever notice, and a full lineup of shiny new appliances. Honestly, what more could anyone possibly want?  Mimi, of course. Phase II.

MJ

July 8, 2025

Michael Jackson was truly one of a kind—a generational talent whose music, movement, and imagination reshaped global pop culture. He gave the world joy on an unmatched scale, turning songs into shared memories and performances into moments of pure wonder. Yet behind the brilliance, there lingered a quiet absence—a longing for the love of a family.

Puppy Sitting

July 9-19, 20256

Grandma heads to Denver for some peaceful puppy babysitting—what could go wrong with two French bulldogs? Enter Miss Eloise who nearly staged a full-blown emergency by attempting to swallow her toy shark’s dorsal fin like it was her last meal on earth. Once again proving “babysitting puppies” is just code for chaos.

Big W in Yellowstone

July 24 - August 5, 2025

At 14 years old, my “perfect” grandson has mastered the rare art of trying to sleeping until noon while claiming he’s exhausted from “thinking too much.” He can clear a dinner table faster than a power outage and still insist he’s “still hungry.” He saw Yellowstone buffalo and made movie history.

Master Closet Remodel Begins

September 13, 2025

Most closet remodels are typically a request to fix an inefficient system that gets used every single day—not just to “make it nicer.” but give the closet clean lines, matching materials, improved lighting.

Master Closet Floor Completed

September 21, 2025

There’s a deep satisfaction in producing a finished, functional object. A hickory wood floor isn’t just a surface; it becomes part of our home’s story: “Oui built that.”

Some Like It Hot​

September 24, 2025​

The story follows two struggling musicians, Joe and Jerry, who accidentally witness a mob hit. To escape the gangsters, they disguise themselves as women—Josephine and Daphne. It was fun and entertaining. It is always fun to travel to Spokane for good food and a bit of shopping.

New Furniture Arrives

October 11, 2025

Homes act as a reflection of identity. Mimi’s goal was to improve our home’s identity. She did by improving the feel of the home as ours.

ABD Egypt

October 12-24, 2025

Egypt’s history spans  5,000 years, centered on the Nile River, where one of the world’s earliest civilizations built monumental achievements like the pyramids and developed advanced systems of writing, governance, and religion. For me memories of fifty years ago flooded back.

Halloween

October 31, 2025

Halloween: the one night a year when adults dress like idiots, kids demand candy from strangers, and everyone collectively agrees that fake cobwebs count as “decorating.” But we definitely had fun and laughed a lot.

San Juan

November 4, 202​5

Three days in San Juan blend history, beach time, and tropical nature. A day relaxing on the beach at the Caribe Hilton, experiencing local food and culture. This rest bit offered  an easy mix of  ocean view and the most painful facial ever to be felt.

S. Caribbean

November 7-14, 2025

We sailed on the Disney Magic for a 7-Night Southern Caribbean Cruise departing from San Juan, Puerto Rico, on November 7, 2025. We made stops in Aruba, Curaçao, Antigua, and St. Kitts before returning to San Juan on November 14, 2025.

Southern Caribbean 2

November 14-20, 2025

A B2B on the Disney Magic for a 6-night Bahamas cruise from San Juan to Galveston. We stopped at Disney Lookout Cay at Lighthouse Point (Nov 16) and Castaway Cay (Nov 17), with days at sea then arriving in Galveston. 

Thanksgiving

November 27, 2025

Every Thanksgiving my wife caters a 13-mile delivery for professional leftovers thieves—in 2026, we’re keeping the turkey and cutting off the freeloaders. Turns out the only thing getting stuffed wasn’t the bird—it was their take-home containers.

Half Bath Remodel Start

December 8, 202​5

I guess you remodel your half bath with granite, a fancy European sink, brushed brass fixtures, and hickory fronts for the same reason people wear a tuxedo to a backyard barbecue—no one asked for it, but hopefully everyone notices.

Sad Day

December 9, 2025

Dee passed peacefully on December 9, 2025, surrounded by family after enduring significant health challenges. A devoted mother of four, accomplished dog breeder  and a gifted artist, Dee lived a life defined by care—for her family, her animals, and the beauty she created with her hands. I will remember her for her independence, her passion, and the lasting mark she left on those closest to her.

Very Quiet Christmas

December 25, 2025

The house was quieter than it has ever been, where even small sounds seemed louder, and each of Dee’s ornaments whether on the tree or the Santas on the shelf carried memories of hands that are no longer present. Mimi and I move gently through our familiar traditions. Christmas wasn’t the same in 2025, but in the quiet warmth of this special holiday Mimi and I have to realize it is still ours to share.